May 152012
 

Mel McConaghyOn May 10th, I turned seventy six years old. I never thought about becoming seventy six, it just happened. It was like becoming ten, then twenty one, or for that matter, seventy five. I’ve met people who became this age before I did, and it seemed to have either a special meaning for them, or they weren’t looking forward to it. I can’t remember looking forward to any particular age, because I’ve never had any preset idea about how I was going to feel or look. I take my life as it has happens.

Looking around, I think that I must be doing things right, because I’m still blessed to have most of my Continue reading »

May 082012
 

Mel McConaghyWhy was she attracted to me on that first day of my seventh grade year? I couldn’t understand why, and I’d never been put in that position before.

She was attractive, but not what one might call a ‘classic beauty’. She had deep liquid brown eyes that, when I first looked deep into them, made me forget what I was going to say as they totally absorbed me. Her full warm mouth, stirred feelings in my body that I was unaccustomed to. Her nose looked as if it had been broken at one time, but it added character, offsetting the doll-like beauty of the rest of her face, giving her a touch of mystery.

Her body was transforming from the girlish body of Continue reading »

May 012012
 

Mel McConaghyWhen I was about 14 years old, my brother Jim had gone to work at Norm and Alf Strom’s Tabor Creek Saw Mill, on the south side of Tabor Mountain. Our mother, being tired of trying to support the remaining three of us boys on a waitress’s wage, took a job in the kitchen at the mill. Bud and Bruce, the two youngest boys, went out to live with our sister Betty and her husband Pat, at Aleza Lake. I was in grade eight, and had to go to high school in Prince George, so mother boarded me out on the Burns Farm. It was about two miles from the mill, and I rode the school bus back and forth. Now, at this point in my life, sawmills and trucks were looking a lot more appealing to me.

On this particular day, my timing was right, and Continue reading »

Apr 242012
 

Mel McConaghyWhile growing up in Prince George, there were times when there was friction within our gang. Usually it was a power struggle, some breach of diplomacy, or girls. Girls were always causing trouble among the older boys. They would smile, giggle and wiggle their little behinds, and any boy whose voice had started changing, or was getting a little fuzz on his face, would go all ga-ga. I don’t know what caused the friction, but it was between my older brother, Jim, and one of the Continue reading »

Apr 172012
 

Mel McConaghyOver the past fifteen or twenty years, everyone’s been worrying about global warming. Now, it’s been in the back of my mind as well, every since a teacher in grade five started teaching us about the ice age, and what the world was like before it started warming up.

One thing I did learn in school, and from my seventy five years living on the planet, is that it has been changing every since, and this process has taken untold thousands of years. So, why did the human race only start trying to stop, what appears to be a natural phenomenon, a couple of decades ago?

I know we haven’t treated our old world as well as we should have. We’ve expelled untold amounts of Continue reading »

Apr 102012
 

Mel McConaghyIn the 1940’s, the old gravel pit was our Aquatic Center, unless you were brave, an excellent swimmer and preferred the fast and dangerous waters of the Fraser and Nechako rivers. The Fraser wasn’t an option for me, my mother strictly forbid it. The favorite spot for people to swim on the Fraser back then, was on the downward side of Goat Island. In those days, the island ran from right under the old railroad bridge, and extended about a half mile downstream. To get to it, you either had to brave the automobile traffic crossing the bridge, or stay on the tracks in the center, and then climb down a rickety old ladder.

The Nechako was a little more sedate, but it was still a river, and had Continue reading »

Apr 032012
 

Mel McConaghyHaving lived in Prince George for a good part of my seventy five plus years, like dandelions, I have become used to potholes, because they are both a part of Prince George, and we shall never completely be rid of them. In the early days, long before the streets were paved, when the snow melted in the spring, it left puddles of water on the roads. Then, as the cars ran through the puddles, they’d wash the sand, gravel and silt off to the side, creating a depression. The faster and heavier the traffic, the deeper the hole would continue to get.

I remember in the early 1950’s, when the pavement on Third Avenue ended about where the Friendship Centre is today. A big water hole would form there just about every spring, and what great fun it was for Continue reading »

Mar 272012
 

Mel McConaghyI’ve lost many people over the years. I’ve lost family, and I’ve lost friends. It hurt to lose any one of them, but I lost a friend the other day, and it really, really hurt.

I guess it hurt so much because he was such a fighter I never thought I’d live to see him go. Gordon Checkley was born, and spent his whole life in Prince George. He was one of the most extraordinary people that I’d ever met.
Gordon was involved in a bad industrial accident in the late 60’s or early 70’s. While he was Continue reading »

Mar 202012
 

Mel McConaghyMel McConaghy’s thoughts on growing older and losing your memory.

Almost half a decade ago, long before I retired, I was at the card lock in Abbotsford, fueling up, as was my routine every Saturday while I waited for my turn to load. After I’d finished fueling and checking over my outfit, I went into the office and had a cup of coffee with Dennis, another old guy who worked there. In the process of telling him a little tale, I had a problem remembering a fellow’s name. The resulting silence turned the conversation to memory, or the lack of it. One of our other drivers, who happened to be there at the same time, said, “Let’s face it Mel, you’re getting old and you’re losing it.” I stood there for a Continue reading »

Mar 132012
 

Mel McConaghyThe ship finally set sail, and once at sea, the old Pacific Ocean was a little rough. The ship got a little roll to it as it plowed into the long Pacific swells off the coast of Oregon. I, being an old sailor, headed for the upper deck to get some salt sea spray in my face, but they had it blocked off. When asked, I was informed they were afraid someone might accidentally fall over the five foot high guardrail, and into the ocean. A matter of security, so they said. There were a few consolations though. The best was that I got to spend a lot of time walking the decks, giggling to myself, watching all the passengers who were sea sick. This actually surprised me, because the ship wasn’t reacting to the sea that badly. Oddly, none of the cafés or cafeterias seemed to be crowded.

When we arrived in Victoria, we were met by some old friends from our Navy days. They took us all the way to pick up our grandson, who worked in Victoria, and then drove us all around town to see the sights. It was a great time with no stress. Afterward, we headed back to the cruise ship. I decided to do the packing, because Barbara was Continue reading »

Mar 062012
 

Mel McConaghyThe shuttle drove us from the airport, to where the cruise ship was docked, and then sat there. A lovely young lady got on the bus at 12:30, and told us that there’d be more of a delay, so we sat. After an eternity, they finally unloaded us. Now, the last time I’d seen the little old gray haired lady with the cane, she’d gotten her bag, and was sprinting toward a big building. She was trucking along at such a rate of speed, with that cane viscously held forward like a jousting lance, that I’m sure I saw smoke coming off the little wheels on her suitcase. I don’t think they were engineered, or Continue reading »

Feb 282012
 

Mel McConaghyOur journey to catch our cruise ship ended when our plane landed in Los Angeles, and we disembarked. We were met at the airport by a person holding a little paddle with the name of our cruise line on it, who directed us to where we could pick up our luggage. We then waited, standing around an elongated stainless steel carousel that had a stainless steel chute leading to it. There was nothing on it. I thought, ‘Oh my God, Barbara was right, they lost our luggage!’ as I shot a quick glance at her. She was standing there with a pleasant smile on her face, totally unaware of the situation, trusting that her Continue reading »

Feb 212012
 

Mel McConaghyFinally clearing security, we boarded the aircraft and flew out of Vancouver on our way to Los Angeles. I noticed that instead of a pleasant and pretty stewardess who smiled a lot, we had a very large and less than attractive steward, who reminded me of the wrestlers I used to watch on television. By this time I was getting a little peckish, so I mustered up enough courage to ask ‘Moose’ about when they would be serving breakfast. Towering over me, he gave me a cold look and Continue reading »

Feb 142012
 

Mel McConaghyBarb and Mel’s Wondrous Adventure Part Two: Barb and I were going on a cruise that our daughter had given us, and to catch our ship we had to fly to Los Angeles, meaning we needed to catch a flight out of Vancouver. We stayed at a hotel near the airport overnight, and caught a shuttle the next morning, leaving the car at the hotel. Everything went wonderfully, until we Continue reading »